Tag Archive: Rudyard Kipling


“Not my circus, not my monkeys.” — Famous Polish proverb

“Families are overrated.” — Anonymous blogger

Someone else’s drama does not have to be your drama.

If Covid-19 has taught us anything: It’s that we can be happy, safe and sound in our own domicile.

Almost DailyBrett knows that we are all little specs in the universe, and as Martha would say: ‘It’s a “good thing.'”

We don’t have to wear a mask at home.

We should be polite to everyone, but we should not expect reciprocation.

We can invest; we don’t have to protest.

We have the freedom as the Silent Majority to keep our thoughts to ourselves.

We don’t have to pull down statues of Pioneer Mothers in order to make history sterile and antiseptic.

We can hug our respective spouses, our felines, our canines.

We can indeed marry the individual, but not the whole family.

Heck we have our own family issues to contend with, isn’t that enough?

Your author has been repeatedly writing about how we can restore civility to our imperfect divided society. There was a better time four decades ago, when it was “Morning in America.”

We can do it again.

Are Families Indeed, Overrated?

“If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs and blaming it on you …” — Rudyard Kipling, “If”

The notion that families are overrated may offend those, who are just so easy to offend. The family fight scene — “Up Your Ass” and“Eat shit!” — in “Knives Out,” brought a smile and more to point, a knowing nod of recognition from your author.

No one does inconvenient embarrassing memories better than … families. The villain (played by Chris Evans), losing his entire inheritance is celebrated by the rest of the family. No more BMW. No more country club fees. No more designer drugs. No mas. No more.

Schadenfreude was on graphic display until they found out they were all … cut out of the will with the exception of the nurse from Ecuador … or was it Paraguay? No it was Uruguay. Sorry it was Brazil. No one in the family knew for sure, more to the point, no one really took the time to find out.

And yet, she won … and the family lost.

Almost DailyBrett knows the best way to keep one’s blood pressure under control is avoid other people’s drama. In fact, just take tension and drama out of your life. Love your wonderful spouse. You married her (in my particular case) and no one else.

“With 60 seconds worth of distance run” (actually longer), your author contemplated the old adage of that you ‘just don’t marry the individual, you marry the family.’

Au contraire! 

Let their drama be their drama.

Life can and should be Gemütlichkeit, today and everyday.

Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it. And — which is more — you’ll be a Man my son.”

Is Kipling politically correct?

https://verilymag.com/2018/01/you-marry-the-family-love-marriage-quotes-happy-married-life-advice-messages

https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/46473/if—

https://almostdailybrett.wordpress.com/2018/02/04/not-my-circus-not-my-monkeys/

 

 

“If you can keep your head when all about you, are losing theirs, and blaming it on you.” — Poet Rudyard Kipling’s, “If” (1865-1936)

One thing is certain when it comes to any crisis — earthquake, floods, fires, pandemics — the media will hyperventilate and will be totally out of control.

Another is that no good deed goes unpunished.

And an absolute truth in politics: You have a finite number of friends and the same is true for your enemies. Your enemies will never change; your friends can change.

Finally, the public wants and needs to see its president, governor, mayor, CEO … whoever is the elected/designated leader … that individual must be there repeatedly, visible on the front lines.

The images of President George W. Bush with the bullhorn at Ground Zero, Rudy Giuliani being designated as Time Magazine’s Man of the Year in response to the brutal attacks on 9/11 are illustrative of leaders immediately present and active in response.

President George W. Bush’s response to Hurricane Katrina is less of a text book example. The failure of Exxon Valdez CEO Lawrence Rawl to visit the 1989 Prince William Sound spill site for three weeks or maybe worse, BP’s former chief executive Tony Hayward lamenting about the impact of his company’s 2010 Gulf Spill … on his personal life.

“I’m sorry. We’re sorry for the massive disruption its (Gulf Spill) caused their lives. There’s no one who wants this over more than I do. I’d like my life back.”

Sorry to say Tony, this song was not about you.

Crises present opportunities and perils. Some succeed in the face of unprecedented challenges, others fail miserably. There are few who just for lack of better words, screw up.

When asked at an emergency site to characterize what he was seeing with his very eyes, former California Governor Pat Brown didn’t realize what he was saying until he said it: “This is the worse disaster since my election.”

During the course of any political lifetime, there will be crises. You are not judged when all is well, but defined when all are losing their heads.

And besides keeping your head, a public sector team should always operate under the philosophy that good government always takes precedence over good politics.

Almost DailyBrett believes for any incumbent, regardless of whether it’s an election year (it is) or not, the “What is the good government response?” question should always be answered first.

If the answer is good government, then the question of good politics should address itself.

Invoking The Wrath Of The NRA

“There’s no logical reason for anybody to own an assault weapon.” — California Governor George Deukmejian (1928-2018)

As a Republican governor in a blue state, Governor Deukmejian recognized immediately the political landscape changed when troubled Vietnam vet Patrick Purdy took an AK-47 onto a Stockton schoolyard, filled with happy playing Korean children, in 1989.

The good government response immediately following this senseless massacre intended for the protection of innocent children and the public at large was to ban assault weapons in California. This responsible action predictably triggered (pardon the pun) an immediate vitriolic response from the NRA.

Good government, won. Good politics came along for the ride.

As President Donald Trump directs the nation’s emergency response to the global Corona virus (COVID-19) pandemic, he and his team must be mindful that anything and everything will be viewed in terms of the electoral season.

No action taken by the administration (i.e., blocking flights from China and Europe, teaming with private sector on mobile testing, relaxing and suspending burdensome federal regulations) will meet with universal approval, not this year in particular. There are those who cannot and will not be positive. So be it.

The nation needs to see its leader. The leader of the free world cannot be perfect (impossible standard to uphold), but he must be confident. Some have said we need more teleprompter Trump and less tweeting Trump. Politics needs to be left to others, particularly those out of power.

Instead, good government must rule … good government must take precedence. This is a time for message and political discipline. Can Trump and his team do it?

Let’s give them a chance.

https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/46473/if—

https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1989-05-19-mn-112-story.html

https://almostdailybrett.wordpress.com/2018/05/08/the-governor-who-changed-my-life/

 

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